There’s a structured way to move from friction to momentum as partners. We start with clarity—and build from there.

You’re committed to each other — but the way you work together isn’t flowing.
Whether you’re co-founders, co-parents, or simply building a life side by side, we help you create the clarity, structure, and connection your relationship needs to grow.

The Path Forward

1. Clarity Call

We begin with a focused conversation to understand what’s actually going on.

This is not therapy or an open-ended discussion.
It’s a structured look at how decisions are being made, where friction is coming from, and what’s slowing you down.

You’ll leave with a clearer picture of what’s happening—and whether this is something we should work on together.


2. Partnership Diagnostic

If it makes sense to go deeper, the next step is a more detailed assessment of how you operate as partners.

We identify where things are working, where they’re not, and what needs to change.

This creates a clear, practical starting point—so you’re not guessing at what to fix.


3. Guided Partner Groups

This is where real change happens.

You’ll work through a structured process—alongside other partners—designed to improve how you make decisions, define roles, and operate together.

It’s not just insight—it’s applying it consistently, with accountability and outside perspective.


Why This Works

Most partners try to fix isolated issues—communication, time, or stress.

That approach rarely holds.

We focus on improving how you operate together, so everything else—decisions, roles, momentum—starts to work better as a result.


Where 1–1 Work Fits

In some cases, we’ll recommend additional 1–1 work to support specific challenges.

But the foundation is always how you function as partners—because that’s what drives everything else.


Start With a Clarity Conversation

If you’re ready to understand what’s actually slowing you down—and what to do about it—the next step is simple.

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Bruce Greenstein
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Tapping into my subconscious sounded like hocus pocus. Going through structured exercises to uncover feelings I had not given voice to let alone even acknowledge was challenging but ultimately proved enlightening. It was more than just identifying memories and emotions from my past; rather it was exposing them to the light – hearing myself speak of them aloud – that freed me from some baggage I unknowingly held onto for years. Rich has an uncanny way of remaining with you during the entire process, fostering my ability to let things evolve naturally and meaningfully as I felt them to be without ever imposing his will on the process. A level of congeniality and trust was evident quite early. His summaries and email correspondence kept us on track and tied to achieving an outcome that served me. It’s uncanny to discover how parts of our mind can hold us hostage when it comes to health-related issues and daily routines. The final exercises that set me up for a future I desire were direct and felt entirely tangible particularly having already seen progress along the way. The ultimate kudos go to Rich and this process – for his focus, his genuine interest and ability to relate and connect with clients for their sake! Much thanks!!
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Brianna Capparelli
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Exceptional experience working with Rich. His insight, guidance and support has been invaluable in navigating the complexities of my relationship. He possesses a deep understanding of the human dynamics and communication, offering practical tools and strategies tailored to our specific needs. HIGHLY recommend.
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James Clarke
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Richard is an excellent communicator. He is also an expert in defusing high conflict issues. If you need help with couples coaching or parenting coordination, Richard is your guy.
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dan cap
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Rich Heller’s consistent and proactive approach to coaching provides positive accomplishments to his clients along with a sense of meaningful satisfaction. I have been working with Rich for the past several months and, as a Coach and business executive, I am envious as to how Rich is able to sense my needs. It is often difficult for clients to articulate the challenges that they are facing yet Rich’s consistent probing questions enables Clients to clearly identify the problem at hand. Rich’s methodology then enables him to work with his Clients as they develop realistic and achievable objectives necessary to satisfy the problem. My engagement with Rich centered around an inability to resolve an ongoing office problem. Working with Rich we identified several issues causing the problem and aided by his probing validating questions, I was able to institute corrective measures. The coaching assignment contributed toward rekindling my positive awareness, focus, and the confidence to take on any new challenges coming my way. Dan McCormack, ACC & Founder
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Katherine Miller
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RIch is a dedicated and compassionate professional. I never hesitate to refer to him for relationship coaching of couples and individuals.
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Karen Patricelli
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Would definitely recommend Rich. I did a 1:1 coaching program with him to help me with the relationships with my ex-husband and my two teenage girls all of which were challenging for me. He is a great listener, asks thought provoking questions, and challenged me to think about things differently. The relationship with my girls has greatly improved and I show up calmer with my ex.
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Holly Cook
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My experience being coached by Richard was incredibly rewarding! First, I have worked with a variety of different coaches over the years, and the thing I appreciated right away was Richard’s ability to cut straight to the heart of the issue. Whether I was talking about a personal or professional relationship, he is masterful at listening deeply and bringing clarity to the process. Second, he has so much knowledge and wisdom around relationships and communication, I found myself wanting to pick his brain on so many other areas! Thankfully he always kept us on topic and on time, two things I highly value in a coach. I really enjoyed working with Richard and would highly recommend him to anyone looking to improve any relationship —family, friends, professional peers or clients.
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Rachel Williams
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My fiancé and I worked with Rich and he helped us build trust in our relationship after the trust was broken. Rich helped by helping us develop the skills to process our emotions, and build an action plan to move on. Rich is such a kind, personable, and caring person. From our first initial meeting, we knew we had to work with him. We are forever thankful for all that Rich has done for us, and are so looking forward to our wedding. I cannot recommend him enough, especially for some pre-marital guidance.
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Lisa Blume Kuckuk
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I worked with Rich as my coach for 6 months and we focused specifically on my desire to return to dating. I'm widowed 15 years, and have dated some but wanted to get back into dating with more intentionality around what I wanted and expected. Rich not only helped me to become clear on what I wanted in a relationship, he helped me navigate the dating experience with three separate men. Being able to process my thoughts out loud with Rich reflecting my thoughts back to me and asking thought provoking questions was so helpful. Rich is extraordinarily intuitive, cares deeply about his clients, and works toward his client's agenda with them. It's a true partnership in a coaching relationship that makes it so successful and is why I would highly recommend working with Rich as your coach.
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Suzette M. English
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I worked with Rich on identifying goals, and areas where I want to shift how I show up emotionally. This allowed me to better understand myself and not get in my own way. Rich is knowledgeable, kind and inspiring. My work with him was really meaningful.
Kristian Marcial
Kristian Marcial
Rich helps people transform troubled relationships, both in marriage, divorce and in business. He is part of my health and wellness group and he always strike me as a great coach and leader. In fact, I attended his Toastmaster meeting, where he sits as the president, and was really impressed on how he leads the team. If you have some relationship issues whether personal or business, Rich is your guy!
 Dominic Barletta
Dominic Barletta
Proprietor/owner at A-Team Investigative Services-
A relationship coach will always have the educational background and degrees to go along with their title. What set Rich apart is that he has the experience to back up those college degrees. He has lived through it in his personal life both within his family and outside of his family. Rich has the discipline, patience and understanding that it takes to be successful. Rich is truly the best in his field. Try him. You won't be disappointed.
Julia Mack
Julia Mack
Thanks to the excellent advice from Rich Heller, life during the pandemic has been a pleasant experience for us all: kids, husband, in-laws, parents, everybody's happy and living their best life possible. I could not recommend him more to anyone who needs to learn that conflict can be their friend, who doesn't want that for themselves and their loved ones?
Admira Adovic
Admira Adovic
Google Reviews
I attended few of the events that Rich ran, I can't express the amount of valuable information both me and my husband got. After 10+ years of marriage the tips he shared helped both of us improve communication in our relationship. Highly recommend Rich
Matt Long
Matt Long
Google Reviews
If you have something worth saving... and you probably do if you're looking at this review.... Rich can help you save it! He's understanding, disarming and has so much experience with couples experiencing difficulties.
O Zhang
O Zhang
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ichard is an expert in relationship coaching. He is very professional and knowledgeable. Everyone needs a little help on this "relationship journey". Don't just sit there. Do reach out for help. Once you get professional advice, you will be on the right track to find happiness! I highly recommend Richard!
Carey Davis
Carey Davis
Linkedin Reviews
More than ever before, the lack of peace at home is dangerous not just for harmony but literally for health. I've known and worked with Rich Heller and can tell you without fear of contradiction he is impartial, sincere, and open to reason- all elements of a peacemaker to help couples, the kids- the whole family- deal with today's reality and what's ahead.
Tony Margiotta
Tony Margiotta
Linkedin Reviews
In the first 5 minutes of meeting Rich Heller, you'll feel like you've known each other for years. His own personal family history, which he openly wears on his sleeve, combined with a high level of social intelligence puts him in a unique position to understand exactly what you're going through and how to make it better. I encourage you to speak to Rich about your relationships.
Elaine, NJ
Elaine, NJ

I worked with Richard for several months and during that time, he proved to be insightful, observant, and honest. He always caused me to think and sometimes rethink my plan of action. I appreciate his candor and sometimes unconventional approach to coaching which caused me to explore options outside my comfort zone. Richard was wonderful to work with and I truly appreciate everything he helped me with. If you are looking for a coach who will challenge and encourage you? Richard is your guy, I highly recommend him.

Ben Prusky
Ben Prusky

CEO, Freedom Merchants

Rich really is a phenomenal "peacemaker", which is definitely the appropriate label for what he does. I referred a friend to him, a very close friend. This friend was having a seemingly intractable issue with his spouse. They did a session with Rich, an introductory session to see if the 8-session program was the right mutual fit. Rich immediately was able to defuse the tension between my friend and his spouse. He got both sides out of the posture of "two cats with backs up and ready to fight". He evaluated the situation and after the first session, he was able to share feedback with the couple that completely transformed how they saw the situation causing them the friction. The couple processed what Rich advised, took some meaningful action, and just like magic, all the friction is gone. Needless to say, my friend is very happy with me recommending Rich to them. If you and your spouse are having issues, go see Rich. Just go

Christopher White
Christopher White
Rich Heller is a true professional and expert when it comes to negotiating and resolving professional and personal issues. Highly recommend him.
Jeffrey Weiskopf
Jeffrey Weiskopf
Partner at Halperin & Halperin, P.C.
Richard is indeed the Peacemaker. He's a good listener, good solutionist, and knows how to get people communicating.
Corey Anker
Corey Anker
Executive Coach at Ankerline Coaching & Consulting
Rich is smart, dedicated, and professional. Talk with him and he’ll make a positive difference for you!
Carol Offman Silverberg
Carol Offman Silverberg

Linkedin Reviews

I have known Rich for about 6 years. What has struck me most about Rich and, in my opinion, his most endearing trait is his passion to help people become the best they can be. He works tirelessly to help people communicate, calmly, and in more effective ways so that they can enjoy real improvements in their relationships, whether it be in their marriage, parent/child relationship, or work environment. I admire his dedication and passion to help to improve the state of our communities, one person, one couple, one parent/child, one conversation at a time. Highly recommend Rich to anyone who is struggling and would like to turn their conflict into focus and create harmony in their relationships and in their lives

Conrad Strabone, Jr.
Conrad Strabone, Jr.
Linkeding Reviews
I highly recommend Richard Heller and Rich In Relationship for anyone suffering with relationship troubles or conflicts. His experience and empathy will be able to guide you through any difficult time.
Carmela Bennet
Carmela Bennet
Linkeding Reviews
Rich Heller is an expert in helping couples and families better deal with conflict, and we couldn't need that more right now. His courses and in person work targets couples needing to diffuse persistent and damaging conflict, as well as parents and children of divorced families who want to be the best parents they can be. The pandemic has amplified the need for relationship and family support - I highly recommend him!
Joseph Meerbaum
Joseph Meerbaum
Linkeding Reviews
Rich really cares about his clients and it shows in the way he services them!

What You’ll Get When You Join (100% Free)

Sharing Feelings Mini-Training: Value $75.00

REALLY Listen Mini-Training: Value $75.00

Relationship Stages Class: Value $75.00

Why You Feel Emotionally Bankrupt Mini-Training: Value $75.00

Free Call with Rich: Value $295.00

Weekly Tips & Tools: Value Priceless!!!

Total Value: $595+

= Your Cost: $0!

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