You come home to your life partner, your best friend, your lover. Someone you know you can count on because you have taken the time to keep your values in sync and adjusted your shared vision as you both have grown and developed individually and in your marriage.
You bask in one another's vision for each other, they still see you for all of who you can be and visa-versa and you are both willing to have the tough conversations around personal integrity, holding each other accountable with love and still willing to sacrifice for each other's happiness...
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You go on vacation and your team has this, you can relax and enjoy your time away because as a leader, you have set up the boundaries of your business through grounding your team in your mission and values. You have taught them how to work independently, and interdependently as a high performing team.
You have laid the framework for all your teams relationships with one another, the clients, the vendors so that they use systems and yet can still improvise when there is breakdown...
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Even though your marriage was not a fit, you share children. Your relationship is actually not ending, its transforming and in the process, you are able to set aside your fears, anger, frustrations because you understand that the well being of your children comes first.
Despite your spouses innate knowledge of all your buttons and triggers, you are master over them and when they are tapped, you are not activated, you recognize them for what they are, the remnants of things learned once that no longer apply today in your co parenting relationship. Your divorce is faster, and less costly financially and emotionally to everyone involved as a result...
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Relationships Cause Breakdown or Success
When we are completely focused on the results, whether it be in business, or the car we drive, the home we live in, the circles we travel in, or the schools our kids go to, it is easy to lose sight of the relationships that get us to those results. After all, as long as their is forward motion, we figure can pretty much take those relationships for granted.
Then one day, our key worker quits, husband cheats on us, wife leaves us to start a new life and we don't understand because everything was moving along just fine! Instead of seeing breakdowns as the opportunity they are to get right in our relations, we just look to replace the relationship altogether, only to have the same problem bigger and better down the line.
We can stay on the merry go round of broken relationship, or we can choose to get off so that our lives can be enriched as we build clearer, more purposeful relationships in the future.
Choose a life Rich in Relationship and have a Richer Life
Making the change is simple, but not always easy, we desperately want the benefits of change but are reluctant to leave the comforts of what we know has worked in the past. What we need is someone who has been there, and who has a system to help us shift from the hell of living groundhog day for the rest of our lives, to the excitement of entering into new territory where we our challenged to bring our passions and talents to the front burner of our lives again.
Keith Kirk- President & Owner, Eveready Express
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